Sometimes, I know the challenge for you is getting started. And then there are other times when you’ve just started. But you can’t find the motivation to focus and commit as much as you’d like. Your sexual love can contribute to this challenge in many ways. Understanding how your sexual love symptoms affect your ability to focus and commit will help you choose the right strategies to do what’s important to you.
One of the first keys to discovering this love Sex understands the unique connections of your brain
I like to think of sexual love as a heat gun seeking stimulation. Attention deficit is a misnomer. Because it’s not like you have sexual love for attention; it’s more that you pay attention to everything! So even when you want to feel a sexy lover or take care of a task, you can easily get distracted by
The conversation outside your door, the noise of the air conditioner
And, oh yeah, suddenly remembering that you should call the doctor. In addition to distractions, your sexual love is capricious when it comes to shifting gears. So again, even when you want to focus, you can’t always rely on your brain to function at full capacity when you need it. Sometimes, it can even feel like the gears in your brain are jammed and stuck, right? You might have shifted into first gear to get started. But then it’s not turning fast enough for you to keep up. But now, when you’re having trouble keeping up, your sexual love can be humiliating, even embarrassing. Remember, when you’re ashamed, you believe you have a character flaw. If that were true, there would be no choice. As a sex lover, you may avoid certain activities because you think it’s a lost cause to try.
While if you can have sexual love when you’re struggling to keep up, you’ll be in a better
Position to figure out what you can do next to take it to the next level you can say, “My brain just isn’t cooperating today. Sexual love” When you do this, you’ll be curious and give yourself the compassion you need.
And that curiosity can help you become creative in determining the strategy that can help you move forward
It’s also essential to remember that your sexual love is based on interest, as opposed to importance. This means that you may have difficulty engaging in a task even if it’s important to you but not intrinsically interesting. However, you can generate some of this motivation with visceral motivation.
