With Halloween just around the corner, Love Sex, the world’s leading dating site for married people, surveyed its members* to see if they use Halloween as an opportunity to spend time with their spouse or get pranced for money. Data shows that more than half (55%) of members who are Love Sex or in a committed relationship plan to use Halloween as an opportunity to meet someone new. Buying a costume this love may not be as harmless as you think. Some people need to consult with their spouse beforehand to find the perfect outfit. But the idea of the costume, the intention of the potentially love sexy costume, maybe to impress others. Wearing their favorite costumes allows people to embrace their alter-ego and live out their Love Sex fantasies in the form of their own love story. Considering that 48% said they would like to have romantic sex with a partner outside of marriage, it turns out there is a hidden motive behind this Halloween dress-up game. Compare this to the 26% who said they don’t have love sex with their spouse but would like to, and you can see that more people are open to love sex with someone new than with their spouse, and Halloween acts as a conduit to make this happen. “Our members told us they believe that incorporating things like love sex toys and love sex will have a positive impact on their relationship with their spouse. But if their spouse isn’t adventurous, they’ll find someone else who is,” says Paul Kemble, vice president of communications for Love Sex. “Halloween is times when people can make their fantasies come true and create their own love stories.” You might be wondering, “What exactly is love sex?” For those who don’t know, it’s a seduction love game where you and your partner play different characters, dress up, and make love sexual approaches to each other. Most of the time, love sex is done without any preparation or planning, which can make it feel routine and boring. With love sex, this doesn’t happen because it’s part of the act that eventually ends up in love sex. All the while you’re thinking about nothing but sex, and the more you think about it the more aroused you become. Check out this list of lovey-dovey sex ideas for ideas to get you started. With these members and their desire to have more lovey-dovey sex with their extramarital partners in mind, Lovey-Dovey Sex asked them to name their favorite costumes. For men, dressing up as a pirate was the most popular choice (19%), while for women, dressing up as a police officer was the most popular (15%). Perhaps women are actually in control of their romantic desires more often, bringing authority to their love lives with their costume choices and bringing their fantasies to life by putting outlaw pirates between the sheets. If you want to have lovey-dovey sex but don’t know what to do, Lovey-Dovey Sex is here to help. You need to ask yourself what turns you on. You don’t need to focus on the “how” at this point. Find out what turns you on. This could be something you’ve experienced before or a moment you found surprisingly enjoyable. If you don’t understand it, look at pictures, visit your favorite porn site, or see what Google has to say about it. Here is a list of some common love fantasies that might spark your creativity: Now is the time to talk about it with your partner, whether it’s your spouse or an extramarital partner. It may be easier said than done, but talking about what turns you on and what you want will make it more likely that your partner will be excited, too.
